life lesson learned

i am never going to try and be Latina again.

what does it mean if

what does it mean if this song:

is what i'm constantly in the mood for these days?  because its silky melody and pleading lyrics seriously speak to me.

and that seriously worries me.

seriously.

as does the fact that i know more boys these days that dress like the "men" in this music video than don't.  

i'm largely, largely worried.

so, i've decided to put myself on a steady diet of this:

and this:

and possibly even this:

to snap me out of this extrano/estranho funk i'm in.